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Wombat Dreaming



I found this story floating on my hard drive; it's been more than ten years years since I wrote it. I had a private giggle over it, and decided to resurrect it.

SHAMING THE FAMILY

         It was the first tattoo in our family.

         Dad rang me first."Do you know what he's done now?' he demanded.

         Who?" I asked cautiously.

         'Your brother.'There was no need to ask which brother. I've only got two. 'He's got himself tattooed!'

         'Where?' I asked, curiously"

         'What does it matter where!' yelled my father. "You do realise" he added bitterly "That this is the first tattoo in our family.'

         My sister rang next. "Do you know what he's done now?' she demanded.

         ''Yes" I said "He's got a tattoo. Dad rang half an hour ago. What  does it say?'

         'I haven't looked at it" said my sister. "I'm not going to encourage him. I told him there were places you could get them removed but he wouldn't listen. It's the first tattoo in our family.'

         'I know.'I said.

         My other brother rang to reassure me. The last time he'd rung had been three years ago when  my son was born, but after all this was a family crisis."It's not terribly noticable" he said ' At least if he keeps his sleeve rolled down. But it was an awful blow to Dad. After all, it is the first tattoo in the family.'

         I wondered if I should send my  youngest brother a telegram of congratulation and tell him his example gave me the courage to get the small rose tattoo on my left buttock I've always wanted. But I didn't. There's no fun in shaming the family if someone joins you.

         My mother rang the next morning. She was still giggling. 'It says 'mother' she snickered."Can you think of anything less appropriate?'

         'Where is it?'

         'On his arm. He wore long sleeves for a week but he had to go back to tee shirts some time.'

         'How does it look?'

         'The tattoo's all right. I just wish he'd get his hair cut.'

         My mother is more phlegmatic about shaming the family  than most of her relatives. She's been at it most of her life.

         It started  back in the thirties when she came second in  a 'girl with the most attractive ankles" competition  (You do realise, said my grandmother, tearful  over the breakfast sausages and fried tomato,  that there has never been anything like this in our family before?)

         She progressed through  the first divorce in the family too, the family's first (successful) defamation case against a cabinet minister and a series of other battles from prison reform to mental health that would have shamed the family except  they were used to them, and anyway crusading   achieved respectability in the sixties and seventies and still hasn't quite lost  it.

         She was also the first woman in Queensland to insist on having her own Christian name printed in the newspaper  instead of her husbands, Mrs Val instead of Mrs Barrie, which bought disgusted cries from mothers of five and assorted budgie lovers throughout the state "Her own husband's name isn't good enough for her!"

         I suppose I've shamed the family too, though at least I've done it at a distance, except for a few items like dancing   wildly with the priest at my brother's wedding when I was seven months pregnant and parking my bum in the middle of Brisbane's Queen Street during a 60's Moratorium, right under the office window of one of my father's business associates. My father speaks of me  tactfully as  his 'daughter in Canberra', which makes me sound like an MP instead of a wombat watcher a couple of hours away. He once told me he'd hoped I'd become a weather girl on TV- that was in the days when  announcing the weather was the preserve of girls with large breasts, long legs and ten layers of makeup. Weather girls were guaranteed virgins, the layers of makeup  acting as a modern chasitity belt. Only  brazen femminists went without makeup. Dad felt my lack of lipstick keenly.

         My friend  Jenny shamed her family only last week. Or tried to. She put on a skirt for summer.

         Her daughter looked at her in horror.

         "Mum!' You're not going up the street in that?'

         'Why not?'

         'Your legs!"

         Jenny looked at her legs. They seemed all right.

         'What's wrong with them?'

         Her daughter looked at incredulously. 'Mum! They're hairy!"

         This presented a problem. Jenny's hairy legs were the final remnant of her 1960's rebellions. She was attached to her hairy legs. On the other hand she could see the shame she'd bring to the family walking up the main street of Braidwood with  fuzzy ankles.

         They compromised. She wore stockings.

         At least I haven't shamed my son yet, except by trying to do his hair in public. It'll come. Most parents I know   get long lists of what NOT to do from their kids every time they go out- they're not to laugh too loudly, dance too vigorously,  wear anything that at least seven other parents aren't wearing too or mention anything AT ALL about the private lives of their children, especially something funny they did when they were four.

         As for the tattoo- the family's got used to it. My sister did point out to him last week that girls don't really go for men with tattoos.

         My brother looked at her smugly. "The ones I know do." he said.

 

ps March 2003.

          There is now a second tattoo in the family. Actually it looks rather good!